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Let’s consider a few simple questions:
Would you confess if you regretted your action, if you knew it would hurt the person you’re confessing to or would you KITY (Keep it to yourself)?
What if it’s not cheating, what if it’s falling in love with someone else while you’re in a relationship would you confess that?
What about your past? What if the person asks you about your past and you know there are things in your past that would hurt the other person?
Does the nature of the relationship matter? Kids?
What if you’re the confessee? In what cases would you not/want to know?
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Hey guys,
Love the show really I do. I never felt so at home than when listening to you! This episode about confession was awesome. I almost was going to go back to facebook after 8 months of having deleted it just to tell you guys how much I appreciated and enjoyed this week’s discussion..but then I got lucky and saw the comment option at the bottom.
Bad az een hameh basi ke kardin, akharesh man ba Shahed agree mikonam. Woot woot Shahed!
A fan from chi-city,
Sara
PS
I totally understand the other side though..why hurt the innocent? But bad things happen to good people..or maybe they aren’t good people, maybe the news of their partner cheating was karma biting them in the ass for something they did!
Be har surat-khali dusetoon daram, movazebeh khodetun bash!
Hey guys, gotta agree with Shahed on this one, her point that the man is being totally selfish if he doesn’t tell is spot on and unavoidable.
The guys just felt wrong to me in the end, if three lives are ruined in the end, then like she said, that is the price paid. The cheater should have thought about that before he cheated.
Also, if the point by one of the guys was that 90% of all situations of cheating were filled with regret by the cheater, I’d have to call total bs on that. So many cheaters cheat because they don’t care, and they don’t truly value their significant other. That’s the reality of the world, many people don’t feel regret.
If you don’t let it out, the secret will just grow inside you and eventually destroy you. Tell what happened and apologize (and don’t do it again).